Memory is a code to who we are, a collection of not just dates and facts but also of epic emotional struggles, epiphanies, transformations.
-David Grann
Transformation is defined as a marked change in form, nature, or appearance. From the very beginning of life, every living and non-living being has undergone transformation throughout their time on this planet. Human beings are who they are because they have transformed – from the Early Man to the empathetic, curious, intelligent beings that we now are.
We are shaped by the experiences we have; however, a major chunk of personality is derived from the roots, that is, childhood.
A Vulnerable Time
Our mind is most vulnerable in our childhood. It is a book yet to be filled with stories. We fill this clean, fresh book with learnings, influences, and replications of what we see around us. How is our personality as children constructed?
- The knowledge we intake
- The values that are instilled in us
- The way we are treated
- The things we see, hear and feel
- The affection we absorb
- The people we come across
- The communication that takes place
A set of rules have become a part of our life as we grow. These rules govern every action we take and every thought we think. Our perceptions play a huge role on how life is supposed to be lived, which in turn constructs our path ahead.
A Time For Transformation
A lot of the teaching today is one-way information being provided through a narrow frame. It is not possible for creativity to truly bloom outside this frame. With these limited horizons, should it even come as a surprise that we have such a small chunk of people who excel in creative fields later in life?
Despite having hundreds of subjects and activities involved in a child’s life today, none of them actively touch the development of personality. Despite having books on values and morals, children are not taught to implement them in life. What do we need to transform in our current education system?
A Need of the Hour – Personality Development
There needs to be a subject or a course that teaches a child to follow through on self-development, consciously, apart from the underlying target of achieving higher scores. (Take a look at our blog: Academic Success Does not Always Guarantee Greatness). A slight variation in the basic process of educating a child can make loads of difference in his everyday life.
Why should we introduce personality development in our education system? Let’s take a look at some important aspects that children should learn from a young age:
- To be ready for the unexpected situations that may arise in life.
- To have an independent mind and an objective view towards events.
- To have a mind of their own and stand for things that they believe in.
- To be able to make their own decisions, knowing what is right and wrong.
- To have a hunger for the right kind of knowledge.
- To have unshakeable confidence and courage.
A Constant Process
All these aspects beg for a change within the current process itself. Personality development, like transformation, is an inevitable and constant process for evolution. Read this interesting article on Personality development: An Effective Way to Transform Your Life.
Apart from our own development, we have started looking at the bigger picture of ensuring that our children become well-rounded adults. There are no boundaries aside from the ones we set in our minds, and no limits to what our minds can achieve.
So, start your and your child’s transformation. Breeze through life with positivity and confidence!
